I am a confident speaker. I know that im a confident speaker because i went through experiences that tested this skill and I excelled in them. I thrive under pressure when talken to. Im not bragging, Bess that is what i am:).
Last year, I was in a sort of a conference, and to be frank it was boring as hell. They bought a VIP o he talked and talked and talked and talked and talked not stop. He had good views o he gave nice and effective points but he couldnt make it interesting.
And after that, some people explained what they did, and some of them were eew. Ooola they were soo boring. Y3ne imagine the atmosphere where u sat and listened to people for 2-3 hours non stop.
I was told that i needed to speak about my experience, before my speech by maybe 10 minutes o I didnt have anything to read from. I was litterally empty. Some people prepared for this before the event in weeks and had power points and stuff, But i, I needed to come out with something in a matter of minutes. So as i always do, I gave up, O said if im going to say something its going to be improvised.
So i went to the stage, we were a group of 5, I was supposed to be last, But the 7elo spoke a little and to my surprise gave me the mike straight away.
Here i am infront maybe 200 people, with the mike with nothing in my head.
I loved every single moment in it.
I spoke with confidence, and funnyness. I know that i made every single person in the audience laugh their heads off. I spoke with my natural Kuwaiti accent english, which is funny.
I went through some important points that came out spontaniesly.
I thrived under this pressure.
My speech was not more than 3 minutes but it was fantastic.
I had regular claps between the speech. It was a feeling of victory and proudness.
I was congragulated by alot of people after the end of the conference, O the most important thing that my mom was proud of me.
So from that moment, i noticed my talent and had a lust to talk frequently. I entered the school play with a good role, I did few speeches o couldnt feel more comfortable on stage.
So talking is a talent that i like, I can bullshit alot, but it frequently turns out to be good talk.
But in these days i dont have a good opportunity to talk, I like talking to important people. I discuss alot of things with my uncles and always like to talk to the person sitting next to me in flight.
I like meeting new people, Or just talking to them. To have debate with a rational stranger is my wish, Even if he had the most extreme ideas, bess if he can talk to me i dont mind.
I also can accept alot of views, and can be influenced alot. Politics is something that i can be interested in and last but not least, i can talk about football nonstop for days and days to come.
but agaiin, these days i dont have the opportunity to talk, I wish i could talk to people like Marzoog il 3'anem, Or aseel il 3awa9'i.
I'd frankly dont mind talking to anybody.
just wanted to share this talk:P.